I'm curious how established couples (e.g. spouses or long-term partners) who may have started out monogamish or closeted poly and ...Read Me!
How soon can you tell someone you love them? I don't think you can love someone if you don't know ...Read Me!
I’ve been married for 5 years and with my partner for 10, since we both got out of high school ...
Dear PWA columnists: I'm in a polycule in New York and we realized we mostly all have different ideas about ...Read Me!
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This "he-said/she-said" advice column for the polyamorous community has been run by Leon Feingold ...Read Me!
Dear PWA experts: I've only recently learned about polyamory, and while it feels like it could be right for me ...
Dear PWA: My boyfriend has told me he is deeply in love with me and wants to be with ...
Welcome to POLYquality
, a community-based website dedicated to exploration, support, education, and publicity of polyamory and other forms of consensual ...Read Me!
Hello lovely bloggers, I’m in a difficult place right now with my emotionally-closest partner. We’ve been in an ethical, mutually-open ...Read Me!
Hey guys, My boyfriend of 3 years and I recently decided to start seeing other people. I should explain that ...Read Me!
Hello, My husband and I just started our open marriage. We’ve been discussing an open relationship for awhile now. Well, ...Read Me!
Dear PWA: I have an important question and would like to ask it anonymously. I am in an open marriage, ...Read Me!
Hello. I have been looking for somewhere/someone to talk to and get advice/input on my situation. I’ve been in a ...Read Me!
My wife and I have enjoyed swinging as a couple for years, and we decided to look into opening our ...Read Me!
Hi there Mischa and Leon, I have a partner. He’s married. His wife is wonderful. I’m in a relationship with ...Read Me!
Hello, I hope you guys could give me some insight. I’ll try and make this as short and sweet as ...Read Me!
I’ve been in a relationship for 10 years with a married woman. I am surprisingly comfortable being in this ...Read Me!
Dear Leon and Mischa,
So here’s the situation – me and the man I love have been at each other’s throats ...Read Me!
Dear Mischa and Leon, OK, so – help. I’ll spare you the intricate details, at least for the moment, and ...Read Me!
Hi Mischa and Leon,
I’m just looking for a bit of advice. Basically I’ve been with this girl for over a ...Read Me!
In the last three months, I’ve been cheating on my husband (more consistently) with an old flame from over ...Read Me!
I am extremely new to the poly scene and am still learning community ‘norms.’ In relation to that, I ...Read Me!
Growing up I wanted monogamy because anything else was “not real love”. I didn’t want anything that wasn’t authentic ...Read Me!
I saw your website and am hoping you can help. My partner and I have been monogamously together for 6 ...Read Me!
I’ve got a poly situation and could use your “professional” advice – thanks for writing this column! It’s been really ...Read Me!
Leon and Mischa,
I know that a polyamorous person is able to have multiple partners, including sexual partners, and it’s not ...Read Me!
Dear Mischa and Leon,
I have a strange question for you… What are the poly community’s thoughts on medical insurance? I ...Read Me!
Greetings. So, the deal is that am very honest and up front about who my wife and I are when ...Read Me!
Hello! I live in NYC and the organized poly events here always seem to be advertised to and heavily attended ...Read Me!
Hello there, I am new to the poly world and consider myself an enthusiast at this point. Still doing a ...Read Me!
Hello Friends, I’m looking for a list of questions that my partner and I can ask ourselves in trying to ...Read Me!
Hi! First off, I’d like to thank you on running a great blog. I’m pretty new to polyamory and having ...Read Me!
You run a fantastic blog! Thanks for allowing us to ask these sensitive questions in safety and openness.
I read ...Read Me!
Mischa and Leon- First of all, THANK YOU for creating a place where people in all phases of discovering their ...Read Me!
Lately I have noticed a very big influx of kink into the poly community. I’m not against kink, but I ...Read Me!
What’s the difference between an open relationship, and a poly one? We start our advice column with a question that ...Read Me!
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This “he-said/she-said” advice column for the polyamorous community has been run by Leon Feingold and a co-author since its inception in 2011. It is currently co-hosted by sex-positive advocate Lee Hencen.
Leon Feingold has discussed polyamory as a guest on The View, Huffington Post, PolyInTheMedia, Jezebel, The Atlantic, Quartz and others, plus a featured spot in the HBO movie Americans in Bed. In May 2014 he helped launch New York’s first openly polyamorous residence as its spokesperson, broker, and attorney. He gave a TED Talk on polyamory at TEDxBushwick on March 21, 2015, and was invited to present alongside Dr. Zhana Vrangalova and Christopher Ryan at South by Southwest 2018.
Lee Hencen has been poly for a long time with poly experiences of being married, single, part of a triad and currently in a domesticating partner relationship in Brooklyn. She practices a family style of polyamory which includes long distance relationships, one more than 15 years. A retired RN, Lee has presented various workshops at Poly Living Philly and Denver, Beyond the Love, Loving More Easy Coast Retreat, Eastern Naturist Gathering, Deepening Connections for B-More Poly and Building Bridges.