Dear PWA experts: I've only recently learned about polyamory, and while it feels like it could be right for me ...
Dear PWA: My boyfriend has told me he is deeply in love with me and wants to be with ...
Hello lovely bloggers, I’m in a difficult place right now with my emotionally-closest partner. We’ve been in an ethical, mutually-open ...Know More
Hey guys, My boyfriend of 3 years and I recently decided to start seeing other people. I should explain that ...Know More
Hello, My husband and I just started our open marriage. We’ve been discussing an open relationship for awhile now. Well, ...Know More
Dear PWA: I have an important question and would like to ask it anonymously. I am in an open marriage, ...Know More
Hello. I have been looking for somewhere/someone to talk to and get advice/input on my situation. I’ve been in a ...Know More
My wife and I have enjoyed swinging as a couple for years, and we decided to look into opening our ...Know More
Hi there Mischa and Leon, I have a partner. He’s married. His wife is wonderful. I’m in a relationship with ...Know More
Hello, I hope you guys could give me some insight. I’ll try and make this as short and sweet as ...Know More
I’ve been in a relationship for 10 years with a married woman. I am surprisingly comfortable being in this ...Know More
Dear Leon and Mischa,
So here’s the situation – me and the man I love have been at each other’s throats ...Know More
Dear Mischa and Leon, OK, so – help. I’ll spare you the intricate details, at least for the moment, and ...Know More
Hi Mischa and Leon,
I’m just looking for a bit of advice. Basically I’ve been with this girl for over a ...Know More
In the last three months, I’ve been cheating on my husband (more consistently) with an old flame from over ...Know More
I am extremely new to the poly scene and am still learning community ‘norms.’ In relation to that, I ...Know More
Growing up I wanted monogamy because anything else was “not real love”. I didn’t want anything that wasn’t authentic ...Know More
I saw your website and am hoping you can help. My partner and I have been monogamously together for 6 ...Know More
I’ve got a poly situation and could use your “professional” advice – thanks for writing this column! It’s been really ...Know More
Leon and Mischa,
I know that a polyamorous person is able to have multiple partners, including sexual partners, and it’s not ...Know More
Dear Mischa and Leon,
I have a strange question for you… What are the poly community’s thoughts on medical insurance? I ...Know More
Greetings. So, the deal is that am very honest and up front about who my wife and I are when ...Know More
Hello! I live in NYC and the organized poly events here always seem to be advertised to and heavily attended ...Know More
Hello there, I am new to the poly world and consider myself an enthusiast at this point. Still doing a ...Know More
Hello Friends, I’m looking for a list of questions that my partner and I can ask ourselves in trying to ...Know More
Hi! First off, I’d like to thank you on running a great blog. I’m pretty new to polyamory and having ...Know More
Mischa and Leon- First of all, THANK YOU for creating a place where people in all phases of discovering their ...Know More
Lately I have noticed a very big influx of kink into the poly community. I’m not against kink, but I ...Know More
What’s the difference between an open relationship, and a poly one? We start our advice column with a question that ...Know More
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This “he-said/she-said” advice column for the polyamorous community has been run by Leon Feingold and a co-author since its inception in 2011. It is currently co-hosted by sex-positive advocate Lee Hencen.
Leon Feingold has discussed polyamory as a guest on The View, Huffington Post, PolyInTheMedia, Jezebel, The Atlantic, Quartz and others, plus a featured spot in the HBO movie Americans in Bed. In May 2014 he helped launch New York’s first openly polyamorous residence as its spokesperson, broker, and attorney. He gave a TED Talk on polyamory at TEDxBushwick on March 21, 2015, and was invited to present alongside Dr. Zhana Vrangalova and Christopher Ryan at South by Southwest 2018.
Lee Hencen has been poly for a long time with poly experiences of being married, single, part of a triad and currently in a domesticating partner relationship in Brooklyn. She practices a family style of polyamory which includes long distance relationships, one more than 15 years. A retired RN, Lee has presented various workshops at Poly Living Philly and Denver, Beyond the Love, Loving More Easy Coast Retreat, Eastern Naturist Gathering, Deepening Connections for B-More Poly and Building Bridges.